What do good friends, Dolce & Gabbana, Dooney & Bourke, Citizens for Humanity, 7 for all Mankind, Gucci and fabulous accessories have in common? A Recession-ista wardrobe swap party among friends where no one spent a single dollar. Good times! My fab finds of the evening were a great turquoise Gucci bag and bright yellow Dooney & Bourke as well as a huge bag of great tops and my “new” favorite little black dress.
It started with an idea when we did a fund raiser at my church and everyone donated clothing. Now this was no small swap. It consisted of thousands of items and we shopped over various rooms and throughout the atrium with hundreds of other women. For as little as $40 I found items that would have totaled well over $600 retail. Some with the tags still on them. S o this sparked an idea. I have great things in my closet so why not get together with some girlfriends and do this on a smaller scale with no exchange of money. We all had great things we didn’t wear but were in fantastic shape. So, why not swap with our friends?
It was so simple. We had areas of original retail value and for pieces you put in that area you received credits on your Recession-ista credit card. We then had rounds of shopping so everyone had equal time in the boutique. We had a small group but with groups over 15 I would suggest drawing names for 3-4 people to shop at a time. Their limit was 3 items from any category and with each round the deducted their credits from their card. In the dining room we set up bags with names where they could stash their new items. We even had a changing area where they could try on before deciding.
So the only lesson learned? Well, if you bring things, you need to be prepared to part with them. If your things are popular but you are little iffy about finding new things (and not wanting to spend your credits) you could end up with nothing to show at the end of the event. The goal is to have fun, find new things, and in the end if there are items left over I suggest they be donated to charity (individually or by the hostess).
Everyone had a great time and we plan to do it again. I am so happy with my new finds and that some of my favorite items I no longer wear found new homes.














This year we decided to do something different for our 3 year old’s Birthday. As with most parents you can soon become overwhelmed with the toys in the house and we try to keep them to a minimum. It seems today that children have more than they know what to do with. We also want to instill the idea of “giving back” at an early age and that holidays and celebrations are not just about presents and toys. With a birthday so soon after Christmas and the current economic situation, we wanted to support a local business and/or assist someone in need. We were able to accomplish both. In regards to the entertainment for the 3-somethings we brought in 
















